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    July 09

    关心

    我最讨厌的,就是被人关心
    被人追前追后的嘘寒问暖。
     
    困难只是阻碍罢了,越过去就可以;挫折只是疼痛,或忍或忘,如果目标明确都无所谓
    被关心却是枷锁。
    锁着人,东去不了,西干不成。
    关心我们的人总有那么多道理,在耳边嗡嗡扰扰,若不按他们的想法行事决不罢休
    软的硬的轮番上,“我关心你啊”当你终于爆发的时候,他们还会做出很受伤的样子。末了再来一句“你就等着吃亏吧。”
     
    亦或者拐弯抹角的想从我们身上探寻着八卦宝藏。
    诸如,“你有没有男朋友阿?”
    如果你说有,就等着承接呼噜呼噜滚出来的一大串问题吧,“你男朋友是哪儿的人啊?干什么的?家里什么情况阿?你们怎么认识的? 性格怎么样?喜欢吃大蒜还是葱头? 今年多大了?抽烟不?……”
    如果你回答“没有”
    那麻烦的更多,“为什么还不找一个啊?我给你介绍一个吧。你喜欢什么类型的?……我认识的一个小伙子……”然后就是邝日持久的相亲动员会。
     
    如果我的幸福会完蛋的话,毫无疑问,就是毁在“关心”手里。
    在我看来,所谓关心,不出两层含义,一个是“控制”,一个是“谈资”
    很多时候,我就像提线木偶一样,不是被束着手脚,就是被窥探研究个没完
     
    还想问么?
    姑奶奶嗓子挂吊了,不痛不痒,就是不能说话。
    哈哈,感谢上天,每年都封我的喉,让我可以堂而皇之的指指喉咙,不回答任何问题
     
     
     

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    Huang Emilywrote:
    好久没有更新了啊
    July 27
    子 季wrote:
    参加了博客比赛,需要支持
    July 26
    Huang Emilywrote:
    如果我关心你,可不可以不说,因为不懂得该如何表达……呵呵,对于你说的两种关心,我也很反感,也许只是一种交际的手段,但是发现确实还存在关心自己的人。
     
    July 12

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